Apache help

[RED WIND]

I dont know if it is with apache or with something else but the problem I am having is when I ask friends to go to the site they say they have a error saying server took too long to reply but when I type in the address on my browser on a diff computer it works also with filezilla I get a message that they disconect and they get a message saying timeout. and yes I did all the port forwarding and I even took down my firwall on both the PC and Router but still nothing

[russell]

is the site hosted in your home? is the DNS registered? what happens if a remote user tries to trace the route?

[RED WIND]

it is a NO-IP domain name but the server is at my home

[russell]

can they trace route? where does it die?