media player help please

[xtecltd]

im after playing a short song on my site but iv not got a clue what the code is
iv had a look about but i cant seem to get them to work
i also want a little media player on the screen so they can stop the song ect
thank you for your time

[_Aerospace_Eng_]

<object id="player1" width="300" height="44"
classid="CLSID:6BF52A52-394A-11d3-B153-00C04F79FAA6"
codebase="http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.cab#Version=5,1,52,701"
standby="Loading Microsoft Windows Media Player components..." type="application/x-oleobject">
<param name="url" value="http://linktoyoursong.mp3">
<param name="uiMode" value="full">
<param name="autoStart" value="false">
<param name="loop" value="true">
<embed type="application/x-mplayer2"
pluginspage="http://microsoft.com/windows/mediaplayer/en/download/"
showcontrols="true" uimode="full" width="300" height="44"
src="http://linktoyoursong.mp3" enabled="0" autostart="0" loop="true"></embed>
</object>