I need help from flash experts please!

[MistyEyes]

I am on XPSP2 Home. I use IE 6 and Firefox.
I run an adult cam directory, and any site that I check in
IE 6, that uses the swflash embedded, for live cams,
times out in 1 way or another.
I get their messages like:
"Performer has left", or "Tired of timing out?" or "Unauthorized Domain",
even though they are really live.
(I check in Firefox to verify).

I have the newest flash plugins for IE and for Firefox.

I can see regular flash, and regular swf, but when they are in cam sites,
with applets similar to below, I cannot see anything.
I have changed my settings in IE security to, 3 or 4 times.
WHAT am I missing????
Any suggestion will be welcomed! I don't know what
else to try.
I do NOT have my firewall active when testing.

TIA!
HERE ARE ROUGH EXAMPLES OF WHAT DOES NOT WORK.

<object classid="clsid:
D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=7,0,19,0" width="100%" height="100%">
<param name="movie" value="http://img.NAMECHANGED.com/flash/freechat123.swf">
<param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="AllowScriptAccess" value="always">
<param name="FlashVars" value="performerid=DesireeBabe&sessionid=f9b68ce2abb17b693b215edc034ecd1bfaa2970c&ismember=false&app letskin=skins/NAMECHANGED/freechat_074.swf&appletstream=anim/sharevideo/NAMECHANGED/sharevideo_009.swf&appletroot=http://img.NAMECHANGED.com/flash/&appletbrand=NAMECHANGED&appletcol=38021B&txtcolor1=00ccff&txtcolor2=ffb75d&txtcolor3=ccff00&txtcolo r4=ffffff&txtcolor5=00fff0&txtcolor6=ffb75d&txtcolor7=ffb75d&txtcolor8=ffffff&txtcolor9=ffb75d&txtco lor10=ffffff&appletlang=lang/en/memb_en_031.xml&appletservers=servers031.xml&isfavorite=false&serverid=fccem426giu1vblee6k2l6m3te75h q5b77s&subbrand=NAMECHANGED">
<embed src="http://img.NAMECHANGED.com/flash/freechat123.swf" quality="high" allowscriptaccess="always" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashvars="performerid=DesireeBabe&sessionid=f9b68ce2abb17b693b215edc034ecd1bfaa2970c&ismember=false &appletskin=skins/NAMECHANGED/freechat_074.swf&appletstream=anim/sharevideo/NAMECHANGED/sharevideo_009.swf&appletroot=http://img.NAMECHANGED.com/flash/&appletbrand=NAMECHANGED&appletcol=38021B&txtcolor1=00ccff&txtcolor2=ffb75d&txtcolor3=ccff00&txtcolo r4=ffffff&txtcolor5=00fff0&txtcolor6=ffb75d&txtcolor7=ffb75d&txtcolor8=ffffff&txtcolor9=ffb75d&txtco lor10=ffffff&appletlang=lang/en/memb_en_031.xml&appletservers=servers031.xml&isfavorite=false&serverid=fccem426giu1vblee6k2l6m3te75h q5b77s&subbrand=NAMECHANGED" width="100%" height="100%"></embed>
</object>

OR LIKE:

<div id="chat_div" style="width: 720px; height: 295px;">
<embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="media/flash/html/pleasantheights_0.04.swf?20080122205911" style="" id="pleasantheights" name="pleasantheights" quality="high" allowscriptaccess="always" flashvars="allowResize=true&amp;siteId=58f021ad-7825-431b-b1c2-de5311b3d64c&amp;cpid=0f8cdce4-7e93-1231-7db6-f6f67cdef0b2" height="100%" width="100%">
</div>

[copirite]

try downloading the latest version of the flash plugin and the latest internet explorer then give it another try I have had a computer do that before and it was just because IE 6 is a little buggy sometimes.... you might just have you re-install your software.

[MistyEyes]

copirite: Thank you for the quick reply!

YOU SAID: "try downloading the latest version of the flash plugin and the latest internet explorer
then give it another try I have had a computer do that before and it was just because
IE 6 is a little buggy sometimes....
you might just have you re-install your software."

I JUST reinstalled my XPSP2 via slipstream, so everything
on my machine is fairly new and fresh.
The 'flash' and shockwave plugins for IE and Firefox I have re-installed last week.
I tried to repair IE, it did not work.
I tried to reinstall IE, but it says the version I have is newer than the one I am installing.
I have all the XP and IE6 updates is prolly why
I have not seen anyplace to uninstall IE either.
ACK!
This is totally ridiculous. I have never had this problem before, and it's making me crazy!!! LOL!
I DO have picture caps of the timeout errors I receive.
I will post them is everyone is of age, as they are
from adult webcams.

[WebJoel]

...I DO have picture caps of the timeout errors I receive.
I will post them if everyone is of age, as they are
from adult webcams.

Don't do it, -it'll be deleted by a Moderator such as myself. There are minors on this forum..

[MistyEyes]

That's is why I asked
btw: they are not of adult nature but they do have the sites urls.
TY!

[copirite]

I already know what the link is but considering most of the time I check webdeveloper at work I can't look at to see what your problem is. so I will have to do it on the weekend... and get back to you

[MistyEyes]

OK,
I will be around unless someone comes up with some sort or solution, short of installing IE 7
That is the VERY last thing i want to do!

[MistyEyes]

VERYYYY interesting!
I found yet another type of embedded flash that will not load in IE.
This one actually says "The movie will not load".

Here is the code, minus the real URL:
<embed src="http://www.NAMECHANGED.com/flv_player/flvplayer.swf" width="470" height="264" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" flashvars="&file=http://NAMECHANGED.COM/trailers/trailer.flv&height=264&width=470&link=http://secure.NAMECHANGED.com/track/ABcDe0Mw&linkfromdisplay=true&linktarget=_blank" />

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While I am here, where might I find an embed tutorial for VERY beginners? I need it for swf and flv.
I have tried a few different sites and I can not make any sense out of them. TIA!

[MistyEyes]

So no one can help me?