Please Help Me ... Mysql Connect Error

[baltazhor200401]

hi, im newbie with mysql, what should i do with this error :
Warning: mysql_connect() [function.mysql-connect]: Host 'mis-arius.datascrip.co.id' is not allowed to connect to this MySQL server in D:\web server\test_koneksi.php on line 5
Host 'mis-arius.datascrip.co.id' is not allowed to connect to this MySQL server or this error :
Warning: mysql_connect() [function.mysql-connect]: Host '172.16.1.145' is not allowed to connect to this MySQL server in D:\web server\test_koneksi.php on line 5
Host '172.16.1.145' is not allowed to connect to this MySQL server

Please tell me how to connect to remote mysql server ...

Thanks

[chazzy]

it looks like your remote mysql database isn't configured to accept connections from your host. you'll need to configure it that way. probably some settings in my.cnf

[baltazhor200401]

where i can find it