How to get video to not autostart ?

[ballmoney]

Heres my code, I would like to have it so it dose't auto start. Thanks

<PARAM name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF">
<PARAM name="movie" value="http://images.dvd.ws/video/preloa… 8335328070895408033&host=images.dvd.ws&l…
<PARAM name="loop" value="false">
<PARAM name="quality" value="high">
<PARAM name="play" value="false">
<PARAM name="menu" value="TRUE">
<PARAM name="wmode" value="transparent">
<EMBED width="370" height="360" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" src="http://images.dvd.ws/video/preloade… 070895408033&host=images.dvd.ws&language… name="dvd_video" id="testimonials_video" play="false" menu="TRUE" quality="high" wmode="transparent" loop="false" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="

[skilled1]

most flash videos are not set up to disable an autostart feature, i would look into another freeware type of video player such as longtailvideo.com (which i have used pretty extensively)