Help with query from 2 related tables

[Hen Asraf]

So, I have 2 tables for private messages. One is for the PMs themselves, the other is for their recipients.

--
-- Table structure for table `pms`
--

CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS `pms` (
  `id` int(11) NOT NULL auto_increment,
  `parent` int(11) NOT NULL default '0',
  `user` int(11) NOT NULL,
  `time` timestamp NOT NULL default CURRENT_TIMESTAMP,
  `title` varchar(255) collate utf8_bin NOT NULL,
  `text` text collate utf8_bin NOT NULL,
  PRIMARY KEY  (`id`)
) ENGINE=MyISAM  DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8 COLLATE=utf8_bin AUTO_INCREMENT=8 ;

-- --------------------------------------------------------

--
-- Table structure for table `pm_recipients`
--

CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS `pm_recipients` (
  `pm` int(11) NOT NULL,
  `user` int(11) NOT NULL
) ENGINE=MyISAM DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8 COLLATE=utf8_bin;

What's odd though is, when I'm no longer listed in the recipients table for a specific PM, it still gets selected, if I'm the one who created it. I dunno why it happens, this is the query I'm using:

	SELECT `pms`.*, `recipients`.*
	FROM `pms`, (
		SELECT `pm_recipients`.`pm`,
		`pm_recipients`.`user` AS `recipient`
		FROM `pm_recipients`,`pms`
		WHERE `pm_recipients`.`pm` = `pms`.`id`
		AND `pm_recipients`.`user` = '{$me->id}'
	) AS `recipients`
	WHERE `pms`.`parent` = '0'
	GROUP BY `pms`.`id`
	ORDER BY `pms`.`time` DESC

Thanks in advance O: