I would like to know how my site looks from other peoples view
Well it could use some work... You definitely need to add a Doctype to all the pages in your site. Also your code needs to be validated. You might also benefit from purchasing a good graphics program like PhotoShop and learning it. I could really see that site being much better with even just the code validated.
wow thank you so much, I really have some work to do!! I guess I will be going back to the drawing table again.
I expect the links to change on mouseover, and after being visited. I'm not so sure about the green.