I'm glad you care about the look. Most people don't or it just seems that way since they try to cram a bunch of little teeny tiny words everywhere and it looks like a mess. If the look isn't at least nice people will leave sooner.
Your glow instead of the shadow is a nice touch. The whole set up looks sharp.
I think the top of the page really hurts the design.
I would change "Click here to enter the rpg" to > Enter the RPG <, it's underlined so people will know it's a link and the arrows will shout it's a link to people that don't surf much. I'ld make it dark blue too so it's not so distracting, (not purple).
Again the banner with the different times in it seems so out of place. It is cool, (can I have it? Please.) but I would change the colors to alternating darker than your site blue tones, just two with a lighter blue text so it would all blend in.
Other than that the site looks very cool, I like the scroll bar too.
Oh, sorry but the piano sounds really sad and I didn't see a button to turn it off either.