Yeah. I know what you mean. I went through that phase about two years ago. It was really frustrating at first until you realize that Web design is like a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich.
To set things up, HTML is like peanut butter. CSS is the jelly and the abstract thing called "Web design" is the bread.
At first we only had peanut butter and bread to work with. PB provides a good base for things and helps define what the sandwhich is (peanut butter sandwhich). Add some good design (like honey oat bread... mmmm... ) and you've got a decent lunch.
But peanut butter (HTML) was never meant to tantalize the taste buds. In an effort to make it more than it was, peanut chunks were added to make chunky peanut butter, but at the root of it, chunky peanut butter is still just peanut butter. This was the equivalent of adding presentational tags and attributes to HTML and using tables for layout. Yeah, it worked. But it was still HTML and it wasn't being used for its intended purpose: Marking up a document. Designers needed something more.
CSS was developed to fill this void, and thus jelly was invented. Now we can use plain old peanut butter as peanut butter (semantic HTML) and add some zest to our sandwhich with jelly (CSS) — add some gourmet bread (good design) and you've got a kick ass lunch! That leaves out one thing in Web design: JavaScript.
Right now we can take away the jelly and we still have a sandwhich. We can't build it totaly out of jelly because after all, its not called a jelly and peanut butter sandwhich
Now on to JS.
We're not going to add anything to the sandwhich, instead, we're going to add something to our lunch: A glass of milk. HTML (peanut butter), CSS (jelly) and design (bread) make a functional Web site. JavaScript extends that basic functionality. It should never create it (you wouldn't pour milk onto bread would you?). A swallow of milk helps the sandwhich go down easier, but if you take away the milk, you've still got a sandwhich.
JavaScript adds to an already functional, whole page. Take away the JavaScript and all information is still accessible and readable. This whole strange analogy is the mantra of accessible, CSS-based design.