Hi weninger -
I looked at your website and have a few comments -
Like thetree mentioned, the use of the flash header and the straight text header seem redundant. You need to choose between one or the other. Since your metadata contains the title and the description, you can probably make do with the Flash header, although many people won't have the Flash plug-in necessary to play it. That decision is up to you.
There are way too many links on the left. Everything below "Jewelry by Monica" seems superfluous to the aim of the site: business. You might save those links for a personal site, and have a link to it on your business site. Something like "About the designer" or something.
You might rethink the Q&A - this information seems pretty important, and should be more prominent on the site. I'd redesign your navigation to
Odd & Ends
About the Designer
About the Jewelry
This is much more streamlined, and professional looking.
Also, get rid of the link to the "current" page that's on the current page, such as the link "Welcome" on the homepage. This link only reloads the page.